From Corporate Career to Asian Cupid: How One Woman Built a Business of Love

A Journey Fueled by Passion and Purpose

NATIONWIDE - (USAnews.com) It was 2009, and May Bugenhagen was standing at a crossroads. She had spent years in the corporate world, honing her skills in a high-powered environment. But as the years passed, something felt off. The office walls, the spreadsheets, the endless meetings, they weren’t fulfilling her deeper calling. What May had always been drawn to, even before she considered it as a career, was people. The connections between them. The shared stories, the laughter, and yes, the pursuit of love. That’s when she decided to leave the corporate world behind and take a leap into the unknown, one that would lead her to found Two Asian Matchmakers.

The Birth of Two Asian Matchmakers

Two Asian Matchmakers was born out of a desire to create something truly personal and meaningful in the matchmaking industry. May saw a gap in the marketplace: while many services relied on algorithms, she knew that real connections were based on much more than data points and compatibility formulas. May's mission was clear: she wanted to build an agency that not only focused on connecting people but also understood the nuances of culture, personal values, and genuine human connection.

Focusing primarily on Asian singles and those who appreciate Asian culture, May carved out a niche that was both specialized and deeply personal. Her business wasn’t just about setting people up, it was about helping them create lasting relationships, founded on mutual respect and shared values. But there were challenges. When she began her matchmaking career, the concept of personalized, boutique-style matchmaking wasn’t widely popular. People were skeptical, and many in the industry were focused on quick matches and volume rather than true compatibility.

“I wanted matchmaking to feel human again, not transactional, not algorithmic, but heartfelt,” May reflects. And so, she immersed herself in learning everything she could about relationships. She earned her certification through the Global Love Institute in New York and joined the Matchmakers Alliance, seeking to collaborate with the best in the industry and learn from their expertise. What set her apart was a relentless commitment to creating meaningful connections.

Building a Network of Connection

Unlike many of her competitors, May didn’t rely on formulas to connect her clients. She leaned on her relationships. By networking tirelessly and collaborating with over 300 professional matchmakers across the country, May ensured that her clients had access to one of the most extensive and curated matchmaking networks in the U.S. But her work didn’t stop there. She attended networking dinners, hosted intimate gatherings, and took every opportunity to personally introduce clients to potential matches, always prioritizing quality over quantity.

Her hands-on approach to matchmaking is what makes her stand out in a crowded industry. She treats each match as if it were for a close friend. This investment in human connection has resulted in numerous success stories, including marriages and even babies, proof that May’s method is not only unique but incredibly effective.

“I focus on connecting Asian singles and those who appreciate Asian culture because love isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s shaped by culture, upbringing, and shared values, and I get that,” she says. This personalized approach has proven successful time and time again, but it’s May’s unwavering dedication to her clients that truly sets her apart.

Overcoming Life's Obstacles

Though she was achieving great success in her business, life had other plans for May. In 2017, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, a challenge that would test not only her physical strength but also her emotional resilience. But May didn’t choose the easy path. Instead of opting for traditional treatments, she healed her body naturally through nontraditional methods that required patience, faith, and persistence.

That experience forever altered her perspective on life and love. It taught her the importance of resilience, gratitude, and intuition. And these lessons have profoundly impacted her work. Today, May is not just healthy but thriving, and she brings that same energy, passion, and personal insight into her matchmaking services. She approaches every match with a renewed sense of purpose, knowing that love is about more than just finding someone, it’s about finding someone who truly complements your life, values, and vision.

Why Two Asian Matchmakers Stands Out

What makes Two Asian Matchmakers different from the countless matchmaking services available today is the level of personal investment May brings to every client. While others rely on technology and algorithms to match people based on surface-level data, May’s approach is grounded in intuition, empathy, and a deep understanding of human connection. She’s not just a matchmaker; she’s a confidante, a friend, and an advocate for love.

Her database, which is one of the largest and most curated Asian matchmaking networks in the U.S., has grown over the years through trust, collaboration, and genuine connection. But May's network is only part of the equation. Her success is also due to her tireless work in building authentic relationships with her clients, partners, and even colleagues.

“I collaborate with over 300 matchmakers worldwide,” she explains. “When you know people personally, when they like, trust, and respect you, they’ll move mountains to help your clients find love.” This global collaboration gives her clients an unparalleled edge in finding their ideal match, often with access to networks that others can’t offer.

Success Stories and Real-Life Love

One of May’s favorite success stories comes from a client named Ron. A 40-year-old man who had limited dating experience, Ron came to May seeking not just a match but guidance. Over time, May worked with him to build his confidence and help him understand what truly made him attractive. Eventually, she introduced him to a woman ten years his junior who shared his calm, steady energy. They connected instantly and today are married with a child, a testament to the power of personalized matchmaking.

Another touching success story comes from Michael, a single dad with four kids. Michael struggled to find a partner who could understand his unique life situation. After a few unsuccessful attempts, May introduced him to Grace, an Asian single mom of four. From their very first conversation, everything clicked. They eventually married and are now raising their blended family together. “May didn’t just find me love,” Michael later told her. “She found me the right person.”

These success stories are not isolated incidents; they are the result of May’s commitment to treating every client like family, ensuring their emotional and personal needs are met.

The Future of Matchmaking: A Heartfelt Approach

As Two Asian Matchmakers continues to grow, May remains at the forefront of the industry, blending traditional matchmaking with modern strategies. Whether it’s through AI-assisted communication tools or her dedication to human-centered introductions, May is constantly innovating to ensure that her clients receive the best experience possible.

But at the heart of it all remains the same core value: love is not a transaction, and matchmaking is not just about finding a date, it’s about creating lasting, meaningful relationships. With more than 16 years of experience, May’s unwavering passion for matchmaking is evident in every connection she makes.

Ready to Find Your Ideal Match?

If you’re ready to experience matchmaking that goes beyond the surface and dives deep into compatibility, values, and shared vision, visit Two Asian Matchmakers to learn more. With May Bugenhagen’s expert guidance, you’ll be on your way to building a genuine connection with someone who truly complements your life.

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May Bugenhagen’s Two Asian Matchmakers blends culture, connection, and heart to create lasting relationships with a personal touch.